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給自己的心一份禮物

在逛街的時候,發現上海這裡的地攤正在販售臺灣才剛火紅下檔的連續劇犀利人妻的光碟.我買了它,心想可以一次看個夠,又可打發時間,順便可瞭解為何它會如此的轟動.


看了才知道,戲裡美貌的賢淑妻子遭到背叛.這種主題符合現代婚姻的問題,加上演員是美女加帥哥,肯定吸引觀眾的目光.尤其是女性觀眾特別是妻子们定會想知道劇情的演變吧.心情也會隨劇情起伏而波動,替劇中女主角感到不捨.如果觀眾裡不幸也與女主角有相同的境遇,肯定在觀看時會觸動內心的傷痛而淚流滿面吧!


我雖沒有此傷痛,但我可以體會那必定是一種無法承受的痛.身為女人,當妳生命裡也只有家人,並為家庭付出那麼多,卻遭背叛與否定,不心碎才怪.


我一面看一面罵,老公勸我不要激動,並說那只是戲也不要當真. 我當然知道戲裡的情節有些不合理,可是身邊的朋友及好朋友的女兒在真實世界裡確實遭遇到先生的背叛而怎走向離異一途.老公他每天埋在公事裡沒空也沒機會瞭解人間的情愛糾葛.
 

人稱看戲的是傻子,我當了一邊看邊罵的傻子後.昨晚看到戲中女主角離婚後在一個場景中不但不怪前夫還表露要快樂積極過日子做女兒的榜樣!對另一位女主角喊到:"不要怕!我們會學會勇氣做自己.不要怕! 不要怕!"    看到那麼好的女人做盡一切,不怪前夫,還要積極快樂生活給女兒做模範. 除讓女兒安心外,誰也難擔保她呵護長大的女兒日後會不會也會遇到遇到此困境?!  如果是我該怎麼辦?我是否有劇中女主角的堅強? 我的淚悄悄流下. 雖此劇離現實有點距離,可是我肯定它可以陪有相同境遇的妻子们走出來.


同是女人,我好心疼女人的苦!



不知女人為何天生就與男人不一樣,最在乎的是永恆的愛情.偏偏自古以來不管古今中外,永遠不變的愛情是那麼稀少.所以偉大的愛情才會被千古傳頌而傷心分手的情侶卻遍佈全球古今皆然.



如果面對感情的傷痛機率是那麼高,那麼如何走出傷痛應該是必須學習的功課. 學校與家庭應該早些教會我們才對.



好友的女兒如浴火的鳳凰已走出傷痛,再造事業的高峰.也再度擁有一個更能珍惜她的男友.男友對她前段婚姻的孩子也很疼愛,視如己出.我們這些阿姨都替她高興並給予祝福. 若不幸又不成功,相信好友的女兒已有經驗與更多的智慧可不會再給自己吃不必要的苦才對.


世間的困境太多,每個人要面對的困境不會相同.情傷只是人間困境的其中一項,如果不幸遇上了,如何走出傷痛雖不是易事.但是如果別人能走出來,就像不幸感冒生病,別人能痊癒,我們就要相信自己也會痊癒.更何況我們每一個人是世間獨一無二的個體,是那麼的特別.那麼我們就更要用理智而不是用感覺去安然渡過,深信自己終就可以擁有更好的幸福港灣.


犀利人妻女主角學會放開讓心自由. 我真為她喝采,這真是對自己最好的禮物啊!


身為女性的我們也要好好看待自己的心,也給自己一份禮物,專屬自己的愛的禮物.



                  Love isn't made for just anyone

       by
       Peggy Perkinson Criss

Love isn't made for just anyone
It's made for that special someone
Who comes along to relieve your spirit
And help your heart grow full of life

Love isn't made for just anyone
It was made by God's own hand
Who came along to forgive your spirit
And help your heart grow to its fullest

Love isn't made for just anyone
It was made for people who feel
Those who come along once in a lifetime
And bring your heart to its fullest potential


Love isn't made for just anyone
It was made for the married
Who come down the aisle to show their love
And bring their hearts into one union

Love isn't made for just anyone
It was made because God is the definition of the word
It came as a trinity to unite all beings
And bring all hatred to an end

Love isn't made for just anyone
It was made for the lonely, the meek, the disheartened
Who were left out on the streets to wither
And bring all their bitterness seeking refuge

Love isn't made for just anyone
It was made for anyone who wants to express it
Who were all brought together in this mighty world
To help each other learn, and know, and fulfill our gifts For love isn't made for just anyone









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